Sunday, March 2, 2008

Friend or Foe?

You have a secret.
You tell a friend.

He/She told someone else.
He/She thinks it'll be secret between them.

You found out.
You promised yourself never to tell your friend any secrets anymore.

He/She apologized.
He/She accepted your decision.

After a while...

You told your friend another secret.
You believed he/she has changed.

He/She told someone else.
He/She regretted what he/she did.

You were angry.
You promised never to tell he/she any secrets anymore.

He/She apologized again.
He/She believed that you will never tell him/her any secrets anymore.

Do you think he/she deserves another chance?
Is he/she a friend or a foe?

Friend? Not a trust-worthy friend perhaps.
Then why give him/her another chance in the first place?

Foe? Maybe.
But a good listener too.

How do you decide?

8 comments:

Jian said...

i am glad that i am not a foe but still a good listener....

Anonymous said...

A secret is not meant to be told.

You've got no one to blame.

limchinten said...

jian: i'm the listener

sarah y: thanks

Jian said...

you are the listener, and also the speaker with super amplifier at the same time...

just shut down the speaker after you listen to something....

limchinten said...

just keep ur secret to yourself

Anonymous said...

The first time you are betrayed by a friend is your friend's fault.
The second time you are betrayed is your own fault.

Friendship is all about trusting each other. When you decide to trust someone, you should be prepared to get hurt. This is the reality of life.

Best wishes

Anonymous said...

A secret is a secret, please just let it be... After telling your friend a secret, is it still a secret? Anyway, some people prefer to keep, some want to tell, some people come, other people choose to leave, so it is great just to let it be... Anything can happen in life, so think again next time when you want to share your secret!!!
Best regards.

PS: Nice blog too!

limchinten said...

thanks guys =p

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